Do any engaged couples bicker over money?

K... We only got our first joint account for bills and it seems like he is constantly accusing me of taking money out of it. We have our own spending accounts and his accusations are starting to get annoying. He will call me in the middle of work and ask why there is money gone from the account... when I pay bills or something like that. I am starting to get super annoyed and am starting to question if I can spend the rest of my life with someone breathing down the back of my neck about spending our money... Am I overreacting or is this normal?